How To Be A Serious Person
In everything one does in life one must be serious in it, else, what you are doing will leads to failure or unsuccessful. As my father used to tell me:
I took his word, and is working for me to date. You should also adopt it if you want to be a serious person.
Seriousness is not being frank all the time, A definition from lexico says seriousness can be said as acting or speaking sincerely and in earnest, rather than in a joking or half-hearted manner. Seriousness in everything you do will make you a better person i.e
- Seriousness at work
- Seriousness at home
- Seriousness in your working place or office
- Seriousness in Relationship
The main reason why people are not serious about what they do is a lack of interest or lack of concentration. If you are among those types, follow these tips below to transform your unseriousness to seriousness.
How To Be A Serious Person In Life
Adopt these five things to be a serious person:
- Have Determination: Determination is the first thing you must have in anything you lay your hands on, For example, When I started blogging in 2019, I determined to have my own website before 2021. Because I was determined, I was able to own my website in 2020.
🌟 If you are still in college, determined to pass out with flying colors 🌟 if you are working for someone, determined to have your own company or be the head of the company you are working currently 🌟 If you are in a relationship, determined to keep the relationship to marriage
- Have Vision OF What You Are Doing: If you don’t have a vision of what you are doing that means you are not serious, you are like a farmer who planted a crop without knowing what types of crops he planted. Have an idea of what you will or want to become in the next years, Tell your self in the next 2 -3 years I want to like this or that. Having a vision will strengthen your power to accomplish your mission.
🌟 If you are a student, you can have a vision of earning big with your degree after completing college
🌟 if you are working for someone, have the vision to be boss one day
🌟 If you are in a relationship, have a vision of having a happy family
- Have Mision Of What You Are Doing: Have a mission. Like I do say:
- Have Zeal For What You Are Doing: The truth is if you don’t love what you are doing, you may not be serious about it. if you found yourself in that situation, try everything possible to love it. If you don’t have a zeal for what you are doing, you may not put all your effort into it and this can leads to unseriousness.
- Have Trust In Your Self And Be Courageous: In anything you do in life, you must have trust and confidence in yourself, always say “I can do it” not “can I do it ?” if you don’t have trust and confidence in yourself, it can cause waste of time, and this may lead to unseriousness.
- Have Enduredrance: This is vital things one must have, always bear any circumstances that come your way, if you tolerate it, you will surely be successful
Fact: If you are the type that doesn’t have endurance, that means you must have been jumping from one place to another, place to the profession. In a nutshell, this means you are not a serious person or type. A Serious person always endure, endurance means that you are serious, while seriousness leads to success.
What Can Unseriousness Leads To
Poverty: Yes, unseriousness can lead to poverty because it takes a successful man’s seriousness before he/she could be a successful person.
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